The park was crowded, and about thirty dogs and their owners showed up. I even got to meet her boyfriend's parents who were there, that was a big surprise. They are very lovely people, which I knew they would be because he is a sweetheart. A loving, kind, caring soul, the type of person you would want for your child. He gives my daughter the confidence she needs in training her dog and the others, and he pushes her to challenge herself and grow. What a wonderful thing, to have someone that cares enough about you, and wants you to shine your light so bright, they encourage you to do so.
I spoke to her boyfriends Mother in the beginning of the walk, my daughter stayed towards the back with her dog, and a dog in training. She is a beautiful soul, very soft spoken, calm, caring and smart. We bonded immediately and it was so nice! His Dad seemed very sweet and happy walking their dog with a smile on his face the entire time. His Mother and I spoke about Cesar, how amazing he is and how close her son is to him, and how he is not only his mentor but friends as well. I told her how we have been watching his him since his show started, of course my daughter found him years ago being the animal lover she is! Crazy how things are turning out, my daughter use to be upset when her dog would misbehave and wonder why he couldn't be an easier dog. So, now the answer is, she wouldn't have met her boyfriend if her was easy, because she wouldn't have needed a trainer.
They had so much in common from the start, obviously, loving dogs! I kept telling myself how she is going to fall for him, I know it, because he is so sweet, they have so much in common, and he liked her. They became best friends first out of my daughters respect for his knowledge with the dogs. And then their relationship grew and grew!!
So, after the walk, I had the opportunity to go back and see her boyfriends new place in Hoboken, and enjoy a bite to eat. The place is really cute, perfect size, and right in the beginning of Hoboken. You can't beat the location and he has a basement where the dogs hang out in their crates. He just moved about a month ago, after meeting my daughter. Being in the house, it felt like being in "their" place, not just his. It was pretty cool, sitting there watching them on the couch hanging out together. He is an easy going guy, very friendly, and has great energy, the same energy we have. He is a joy to be around, fun, smart, happy and carefree when not with the dogs. When he is with the dogs he has a much more serious energy about him.
We walked to a great place in town for lunch, and my daughter had a lot to talk about. She spoke about her Dad, celebrating her friends birthday and much more. It was so nice to be part of their joy, their love, their happiness, it resonates all over. We didn't rush eating, they had a drink, and we hung out awhile.
Her boyfriend spoke about how he use to get mad easily over people like my daughter does, but how Cesar helped him to realize it's not worth his energy. Explaining how focusing on the negative like that andgetting angry, takes away your energy. To me, it's like giving your power away to others, and not keeping your energy for yourself to shine your light so bright. My new Spiritual Mentor just explained this same thing to us in class the other night. That nasty person at work, etc, that you keep complaining about and focusing your energy on, is not wasting one breath on you. But, even more importantly, you are giving away your energy to them, and not focusing on the positive within your life. It was cool he was saying the same thing, just a sign of synchronicity that I need to become more aware of.
When I was alone in the bathroom with my daughter, she explained how she was with him most of the week because she didn't have to work, and how it felt more natural to be with him at his place, than not be there. So awesome, so sweet! I told her how normal that was, how I felt that way before, and it's such an amazing feeling. She has never felt this way about another guy, and she is still trying to figure out her feelings, wondering what love is! I told them both how happy I am for them, that they have each other, and my daughter has him along side her with the issues she is facing now with her Dad. I welcomed him with open arms, but I already did this on Easter Day, so I hope he knows. I thanked him for having me enjoy lunch with them, knowing not all families want to hang out with their parents. I had an awesome time with my daughter, we got to bond and connect again, and it was more fun with him there! To change the entire dynamic of our lives, one that needed a change. To love, to have love, to bring love in, into our lives, into our world, more and more each day.
When I said goodbye to them and walked to my car, I turned around to look at them. They were holding hands walking away, and tears rolled down my face, being so completely happy for them! This is such a blessing, and it is still so new, I am still processing the love and joy I see around my daughter. Ahh, I feel blessed, blessed she has someone to love, someone in her life who cares, other than me. Because she doesn't want me anymore. I never imagined this day, just like I never imagined my kids moving out. But, it is truly a beautiful feeling. I woke up feeling better today, lighter, with my vibration higher, and I feel it's from them. From the walk yesterday by the water, being around the dogs, and sharing the love I see between my daughter and another human being, and it truly is beyond words.
Thank you Universe for sending her love, and for sending love into our life again, to remind us that's all there is. Love, a loving heart. It reminds me to react in a loving way, to everyone and everything no matter what. A loving way, not in a way of anger, anger because they cut you off while driving each day. Slowing down, taking a step back, and relaxing, trying to be in the moment, and go with the flow.
I have so much to learn, and can't wait to fall in love again. My niece has been telling me to go on an online dating site, and I think it is time. It is Springtime, a time of new beginnings, and new love! It's all over, I feel it.
Love to you, all of you, may love fill your heart with joy!
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