Anyway, back to my daughter finding love, an unexpected love for sure!! When me met, I liked him right away, he spoke to us a long time (maybe because he liked my daughter right away and didn't know!). He took the time to explain everything to us about how he was going to take care of her dog, and asked us if we had any questions. I explained to him how she loved animals ever since she was born, and how she helped deliver the kittens when she was only seven years old.
As we drove away, I told my daughter right away how cute he was, but she had a different opinion. Hmm, okay, you never know, I said to myself. Here is a guy we just met, that was trained by Ceasar Millan, the dog whisper guy from television show that we love, wow this is great! She found him because we have so much respect for Ceasar, he is a genius with dogs, and this gentleman trained under him for some time. It is harder to find a trainer who handles behavior issues and not just training them. They have so much in common, his feelings for dogs is just like my daughter, major passion! He was so smart, so intelligent, and had a good sense of self. We felt really comfortable, safe and secure as we left Jake there, knowing he was in safe hands.
My daughter saw him a few times while he was training her dog. and they got along great, and she was impressed with his knowledge as well. After his training was done, he still wanted to see my daughter and asked her out for drinks. Wow, I said to myself, I think he must like her. My daughter kept insisting she wasn't looking for a relationship with him because she wants to be able to talk to him about her dog anytime, and keep it professional. Okay, I went with that. But as each weekend came, she would see him and they would go out to dinner. He is an amazing man, and treats her wonderful. I kept saying how perfect he is, how he has the same morals and values as I do, by the advice he gives her.
But then, there was a time a few weeks ago, I could tell she was falling for him. It is so exciting to see anyone, especially your daughter, feeling so happy and joyous to have someone in your life that you truly care about, and cares about you. Your face just lights up, as hers started to do when she spoke about him, another sure sign! This is new for our family, neither of my daughters have truly had a boyfriend, and I haven't had a man in my life for five years! So, yes I am so excited about this, and love just spreads. It spreads to everyone around, and comforts us, and brings more love to us and out of us. I love going to that place with another, it takes you out of this reality, and puts you in a place of love, bliss, and true connection. To connect with someone that deep, gives us so much love and support, making life a lot more easier to handle. And much more fun!!
Feeling so joyous and happy for her today, here comes love! <3
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